FIRST: YOU MIGHT BE A SAPIOSEXUAL

So what does this mean? Well it basically means your attraction and arousal comes from intelligence. You see when most girls meet a guy they like and attraction is stimulated this is mainly caused by either a physical attraction or an emotional attraction. However… you are different. What makes you different is that you’re number 1 trigger to attraction is a mans emotional intelligence!

The truth is… this makes you a very unique and special type of woman. It makes you stand out from the average girl and often times you might feel misunderstood. You probably don’t exactly know why you are like this or how to even find an intelligent man, let alone how to make him attracted to you. However, you are not alone.

You see, finding an intelligent man is easy! But before you can understand the secret of attracting an intelligent man you must first understand yourself. This is because as an intelligent woman, the things that arouse you and stimulate your attraction are going to be very similar to the things that stimulates an intelligent man’s attraction. Think of it like a mirror! So let’s go over some of the core traits of a sapiosexual.

TRIATS OF A SAPIOSEXUAL

1) You prefer intellectual conversations

Yep! Having ordinary conversations isn’t good enough for you. In fact you prefer intellectual conversations. This is what turns you on. All you want to do is pick a mans brain. The first thing you’re probably looking to hear from him is his ambitions. You want to know his short term and long term goals, how he plans to achieve these goals, and the passion he has for those goals.

2) You are more logical than emotional

It’s no secret that most women tend to be more emotional. However one of the biggest traits to intellect is being a more logical thinker. And guess what? This means the more logical the man is the more intellectual he will come off which is what stimulates the attraction between the two of you. This is the whole foundation of sapiosexuality. Logical conversations! Logical thinking! A logical thinking man will make you go crazy.

3) You’re an active listener

Active listening is when you are fully engaged in what the person is saying. You are listening with intent and purpose. You are trying to make sense of what he is saying and understand how he thinks and moves. Active listeners are people who are always interested in learning. This is probably the biggest characteristic trait of a sapiosexual! If you want to learn more details about active listening click down below!

WHERE DO I FIND AN INTELLIGENT MAN?

The biggest mistake you can make when looking for an intelligent or ambitious man is using one of those general dating apps on the apple store like tinder, hinge, badoo, etc. Seriously ladies… how many times have you tried dating apps only to find out that all guys are looking for is sex? How frustrating is it to constantly be messaged by thirsty immature guys that make it obvious to you that they are only here for a good time, not a long time?

I mean seriously… do you need to be on a dating app only for a guy to send a picture of his pickle? And aren’t you tired of wasting time on pointless dates? Don’t you hate when you are on a date with a guy that isn’t of the same mindset as you? Lets face it… if your still reading this your most likely a sapiosexual which means you need a guy that can stimulate you either with his ambitions or intellect. This means you need a serious guy. A grown man. Not a kid.

So whats the solution? It’s easy. You need to meet guys online on a serious platform. After all… how else are you going to find your future husband? You need a niche platform. A platform that most of the general public does not know. A platform that specializes in pairing up successful and attractive people together. The platform is called Seekers! And your future husband could be one click away.So don’t make the mistake of missing out. Make sure you click the image below to join!

SO WHAT IS THE SECRET?

As I promised you earlier, the secret to making an intelligent man like you is quite simple and easy. Make him feel like a leader. Allow him to lead! But how do you do this? And most importantly, why is making him feel like a leader and allowing him to lead so important? Well the answers are quite simple.

Let us first answer why it’s important to make him feel like a leader. Ambitious and intelligent men all have one thing in common. They are leaders who have very dominate personalities and they tend to be very masculine. I’m not talking about a man who is somewhat ambitious or smart. Or a man who pretends to be. I’m talking about a man who talks the talk and walks the walk. A man who is not only intelligent but uses his intelligence!

This is why making him feel more like a leader and allowing him to lead is so important. Because you are catering to his natural personality and specific characteristics! He wants to feel in control. And I don’t mean this in a bad way. I’m not saying he wants to actually control you or treat you like you are beneath him. What he wants is 3 specific things. And these 3 things are how you are going to make him feel like a leader and how you will make him attracted to you. He wants is to feel like you trust his decision making, you admire him, and that you want to learn from him.

1) SHOW HIM THAT YOU WANT TO LEARN FROM HIM

This is the first thing you should be doing as soon as you are on the first date with him. This will capture his attention and stimulate his attraction towards you right away. The way you do this is by asking him questions about the things he is ambitious or smart about. You want him to feel like you are truly excited and interested to learn these things from him. But the key to this is not only showing him by asking questions. You have to show him in your body language and tonality. You need to really appear like you’re excited.

I’ll give you an example. Let’s say he very passionate about the gym. He actually models for a living and he is having an intellect conversation about the gym. How he got into shape, the routines he does, the way he eats, and he’s explaining how he turned his fitness journey into modeling and into a business. Now this is where most girls mess up! So listen closely.

This goes back to what i said earlier. Active listening. He can see if you are listening just to listen or if you are listening to learn! This right here is what is going to set the foundation by how he perceives you. Men love to be listened too but when he feels like you truly want to learn from him thats when the arousal truly kicks in! You are catering to his ego and leadership instincts. And yes… most of these men have egos.

2) YOU TRUST HIS DECISION MAKING

After he sees that are you actively listening to him and wanting to learn from him the next best thing is to show him that you trust his decision making. Now this does not mean that you need to allow him to make every single decision forever and that you don’t have an opinion. This is just the icing on the cake to show him that you truly trust him. Why is is this tip so important? Because you are showing him that you truly feel he is intelligent, you truly view him as a leader, and that you 100% trust him!

Here is the absolute truth…. men who are truly ambitious and intelligent have leadership characteristics and traits. This is what I told you earlier and because they have this there is nothing that will make him more attracted to you than you showing them with your actions that you trust them. Leaders love when you allow them to lead. Men like this find it extremely sexy when you truly trust them. If you truly find him intelligent and view him as a leader than you will have absolutely no problem with letting him make decisions and trusting his decisions. You are showing him this with actions. Not just words.

So how exactly should you do this? Well let’s say you just had your first date with him and it went amazing. He is now on the phone with you asking what you would like to do next time you both hang out. You tell him this… " Honestly, we can do whatever you want to do. I'm just happy to be hanging out with you and I trust you to pick a great date idea. " Now by saying this to him you are sending a very powerful message! You are complimenting him, stroking his ego, making him feel intelligent, and making him feel like you truly like him. This is because when you truly like a guy you don’t care what the date idea is. You just want him in your presence. Build the habit of constantly letting him make decisions. Whether you just met him or you are already in a relationship with him. Let him be a lion and lead.

3) ADMIRE HIM

Admiring him sounds simple. But let me explain to you the psychology behind making a man feel admired. When you admire a man you are essentially looking up to him. In fact when he sees that you admire him he knows that not only do you look up to him, but your are also very proud of him. Now tell me ladies… what ambitious man dosen’t want to be admired? Do you think he’s intelligent for no reason? Do you think he’s ambitious just to make himself proud? Of course not! He wants to feel rewarded for his ambitions. If he has a real life purpose he wants to feel admired! In fact let me go even further. The female he chooses to marry or be with is going to be someone that admires him. And its your job to make him feel this as fast as possible or you will be left out.

Now here is the interesting part. He is not going on a date with you hoping that you admire him. This isn’t something most intelligent or ambitious men even know they want. But this is something they need and the man you like won’t actually realize how much he needs this until you make him feel admired. When you create that spark this will have an instant psychological effect on his attraction towards you without him even realizing it. And believe it or not, this is where most women drop the ball. You would be shocked how many women lack at making a man feel admired.

Why do most women fail at this? Well the answer is simple. EGO. Yep thats it. The truth is that most women feel that all they have to do is be nice and the guy will like them. In fact most women rely on their every day personality to make a guy like them. But if being yourself was enough to attract an intelligent man then every woman will be able to do it right? It’s not enough to just be yourself. You need to make him feel more like himself as well and the way you do that is by admiring and looking up to him. This re-affirms to him what he is. An ambitious and intelligent man. The more you remind him of this the better he feels about himself! And thats one of the core secrets to stimulating attraction! Making him feel good about himself and you don’t accomplish this by just talking about yourself and showing him your personality. You accomplish this by recognizing his personality and re-affirming him that you admire and respect what he believes in and stands for.

HIS SECRET OBSESSION

Now we have already spoken about how to make an intelligent man like you. But what if I told you there was a way to make him obsessed with you? Making him feel like he just can’t stop thinking about you! Well I have great news for you. If you read this far you already have a good idea of how to make him like you.

You are just missing one more very important step. Making him fall in love with you. And I have even more good news! I’ve included a video down below talking about a mans secret obsession. When you are on your next date you are going to be so happy that you watched this video.

Click the image below! Don't miss out on this video and make sure you watch the full video because it will reveal the number 1 secret to making him obsessed with you!

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