Hi! If you are reading this page my name is Emmanuel Lopez. If you saw me I would probably be typing this in Starbucks right now. My goal is to help you navigate dating, find a happy relationship, and teach you how to maintain it. I'm glad you want to know about me so where do I even get started?

I grew up in New York very poor. I saw my parents struggle and have a very hard relationship. While they did have their good moments I also saw them fight a lot. My father had addictions and struggled financially and my mom had a lot of pressure. They weren’t on the same page in a lot of ways and it got to the point where the relationship even became toxic. 

After so many years of seeing how their relationship was I never wanted a relationship. In fact, I barely even thought about it. From the age of 17-25 it almost never crossed my mind. I even went as far as to not want kids. I was telling everyone in my 20s that I never wanted kids. This was because my perception of raising a family or being married was from the experience I had with my parents. It traumatized me so much that I saw relationships and raising a family as a bad experience. 

This caused me to date around for years.  In fact, I was dating different women of all ethnicity, personality, and types. However,  as I was dating I was very aware and paid attention to everything. I noticed that there were very similar traits between a lot of women. I got to speak to so many different women and heard the frustrations that a lot of them shared. I saw how so many women who had dated me had been dating for years and I could see the issues they went through. How much dating has ruined them? I had a lot of guy friends that were single like me and I saw how they played the game. How they dated and exactly how they moved. I studied both sides and I realized how much both genders have a misunderstanding of each other. 

Eventually, I got married. I'm married to a beautiful woman right now. She totally has my heart and while my marriage isn't perfect I can honestly say it's freakin amazing! We've progressed and learned so much about what it takes to be in a healthy relationship and how important we are to one another. The love that I have for my wife and seeing how happy she is with me gives me the passion to want to help other women achieve the same thing! 

Being that I've dated around for years and that I'm also married in a happy relationship I hope to give you a unique perspective on things. I feel that being a man myself I have a lot of insight into how men move, what they want, the psychology behind their attraction, and how to know if they want a relationship or if they are just playing the game. 

That's the unique perspective that I offer! Think about it... who better to teach you about men than a man himself. I always felt bad for women because the majority of them aren't taught about men. They just have to go out there and figure it out as they go. They have to come to their own conclusions. Most fathers just don't teach their daughters in detail about men, dating, or relationships.

This is what sparked my passion!