10 FUN QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM ON THE FIRST DATE

Asking the right questions to a man on the first date is very important. In fact, it’s so important that it will save you from wasting time on the wrong guys. Your goal on the first date is to make sure that you and him are on the same page. What do I mean by this? Well, you need to make sure that the both of you align well and have similar life goals, visions, and ambitions.

Unfortunately a lot of women don’t ask the important questions on the first date. Either they are too scared or they don’t think it’s all that important. But you are different! From this day forward you are going to ask the right questions and you’re going to walk away from the next date you have feeling very confident and proud of yourself.

Just think about it…. imagine driving home from a date already knowing that you shouldn’t proceed with another date. Imagine feeling like you already know enough about this guy just after one date!

What most girls do on the first date is ask very bland or basic questions or they just vibe with the guy and have fun conversations. Some girls don’t even ask questions at all! I’m sure you went on multiple dates with a guy before and were confused about whether you should proceed or not.

But I do have some good news!

All you need is a list of straight forward fun & direct questions. Questions that will get the guy talking about things you never even thought of! I’m going to give you a list of these questions and explain the importance behind each and every one of these questions.

And the best part is that these questions are actually fun questions. He will most likely enjoy answering them. You will walk away knowing more about him on the first date than most girls on multiple dates. All you have to do is ask them and let him talk.

1. WHAT’S YOUR GO-TO COMFORT FOOD OR GUILTY PLEASURE SNACK?

This is a great one to start off with because you will learn about his favorite kinds of foods and snacks. The way you’re asking him the question is removing the pressure of his eating habits. Let’s say he has bad eating habits he won’t feel the pressure of telling you how he truly eats. You will both start talking about food, restaurants, desserts, etc.

This a great friendly conversation starter and you would be surprised how much you could learn about somebody by just discussing food. It also helps if you’re a gym girl and want to know about his nutrition. Knowing what each of you likes to eat can also help set up a restaurant date or maybe you both decide to cook in the house together.

Use this as one of the first questions that you ask. Now, let’s move on to the next one…

2. IF YOU COULD INSTANTLY BECOME AN EXPERT IN ANY SKILL OR FIELD, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY?

This is one of the very best questions you can ask! Why? Well because it will get him talking about his future ambitions. You will also get him to open up about productive things that he would like to learn. Plus…. you will get him to even talk about what he is passionate about! Think about that!

You’re getting all these questions answered from this one question. But more importantly…. there is another hidden benefit to this question. The way you are asking him the question matters. What exactly do I mean? Let me explain.

What most girls will do when they want to know a guy’s future goals or ambitions is ask a more direct version of this question. For example, they will say something like this. ” So what are some of your passions or future goals? ”

Now that’s not a bad question. However… pay attention to the way I worded the question for you to ask. The key word is that I said if you could instantly become an expert. Keyword… INSTANTLY. 

Why instantly? Because sometimes people have dreams, passions, or ambitions but aren’t willing to put the work in to achieve them. Sometimes they want something but just don’t know how to get it. Maybe he has a dream or a goal but just needs the right girl to help him get it.

By using the word instantly, you’re removing the pressure of him having to tell you something that he wants without feeling like you’re holding him to his word. This allows him to be a lot more honest with you about the question and open up! That’s exactly what you want! That is the point of these questions.

This also creates an opportunity to fill a gap that he may need. Let me give you an example.

Maybe he says he wishes to master YouTube and become an expert on it so that he can have a YouTube channel for traveling. But maybe he just needs someone to travel with and thats why he has not started it. This helps you with that opportunity gap. Being in a relationship is all about filling missing gaps for each other.

3. IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY ANIMAL AS A PET THAT’S NOT TYPICALLY KEPT AS ONE, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY?

This is one of those questions that will spark an interesting conversation because you are opening his imagination. Questions that spark a person’s imagination are the best kinds of questions. This is because we all have imaginations and somtimes we don’t think they can be a reality. But by asking him this your building a chemistry fast becasue you are making him think of things he probably never thought before.

The key phrase in this question is “a pet that’s not typically kept as one”. This automatically excludes him from saying a cat or dog. Do you see the way I’m wording all of these questions a specific way for you? Because I don’t want you receiving the same boring generic answers that most girls receive!

I want you to be able to know him on a much deeper level from the first date. The more you make me think the better the answers you will get. You will receive much more detailed, unique, and interesting answers. But here is another benefit from this.

If he says a lion this could mean that he likes aggressive animals. This could be a sign that he probably has a dominate leadership personality. Or maybe he says a sea creature. This could mean he’s passionate about sea animals or maybe he just loves water in general. Theres a lot you can learn about his personality from this one question! so just ask it.

4. WHAT’S THE MOST MEMORABLE CONCERT OR LIVE PERFORMANCE YOU’VE EVER ATTENDED?

You probably won’t get any special answers out of this question but this is just an overall fun question to ask. Why? Well because everyone loves music. So if everyone loves music why not ask this question?

5. IF YOU COULD HAVE A MAGICAL ABILITY THAT’S NOT COMPLETELY UNIQUE TO YOU, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND HOW WOULD YOU USE IT?

Again…. another question that stimulates his imagination! Yes, I’m going to keep saying it. In fact, let me say it one more time. Imagination questions are the best questions to ask! What you should love about this question is that it’s completely out of touch with reality.

You aren’t going to get any realistic answers from this. But that’s the point! What creates amazing chemistry with someone isn’t just asking serious questions. It’s from escaping reality and asking goofy questions. Questions like this will cause him to give you funny answers. It will also open him up to ask you goofy or funny questions.

That’s the foundation that you want to set! Have fun and don’t be scared to ask this.

6. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE CHILDHOOD TV SHOW OR CARTOON CHARACTER, AND DO YOU STILL WATCH IT NOW?

We all watched shows growing up so almost everyone will have an answer to this question. Again, you probably won’t get any special answers from this but it’s worth asking.

7. WHAT’S THE MOST ADVENTUROUS OR SPONTANEOUS THING YOU’VE EVER DONE?

Now I had to include this question into the mix because one of the most important things you want to learn about him on the first date is his hobbies. This is one of the most important factors that is going to determine if you want to go on another date with him. Think about it… I’m sure you would love to have similar interest with him.

By asking this you will see what his best memories are, things that he loves to do, and similar interests that you may have together. Everyone also loves a story. You are allowing him to tell you a story. Now here is a secret tip. So pay attention!

If he does not have any answer for this question then it’s a red flag. He should definitely have an answer to this question. It wouldn’t make any sense if he didn’t. So just watch out for that.

8. SHARE A FUNNY OR EMBARRASSING STORY FROM YOUR PAST THAT ALWAYS MAKES YOU LAUGH WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT.

Sharing embarrassing stories from the past always creates a laugh. Sharing embarrassing things or mistakes gives a person you’re just meeting for the first time a reason to respect you even more. People respect honesty and the ability to share embarrassing things. Being able to share this with each other on the first date helps to establish some ability of trust between the two of you.

Remember, it’s these little things that help establish the chemistry between the both of you.

9. IF YOU GOT PAID THE EXACT SAME AT EVERY JOB WHAT JOB WOULD YOU CHOOSE? WHAT’S YOUR DREAM JOB?

Now I worded this question this way for a reason. People choose the jobs or careers they work for various reasons. Here is a list of the many different reasons people have for why they work the job that they have.

• THE SALARY
• FLEXIBILITY
• JOB PROXIMITY
• THE BENEFITS
• THEY LOVE THE JOB
• THE JOB IS EASY

The way you’re asking him this question is important. You are going to find out what he truly loves or is passionate about. What he would do if it was strictly based on the job or career that he would love to do. This is great because this question gives you a sense of clarity. Clarity is power. The more clarity you have on him the better. You want to learn about him in a more specific way.

NOW! I SAVE THE BEST QUESTION FOR LAST!

10. WHAT’S YOUR BEST CHARACTERISTIC TRAIT? AND WHAT IS ONE OF YOUR MAJOR FLAWS THAT YOU ARE WORKING TO FIX?

This is the fun question to ask regardless of it also being a serious question. It’s a two-in-one question that will allow him to reveal some interesting information about himself.

Wouldn’t you love to know his greatest strength and greatest weakness? The best part is that he is going to love to answer this question. Most people love talking about their good and bad. This is how you create a genuine connection. You don’t just talk about your great traits on the first date or try to come off as perfect.

You can talk about a flaw too and this gives you both comfortability in knowing that you’re not judging each harshly other. Remember, these are fun questions to askl They are meant to be for fun conversations but also for getting to know each other well. Use all of these questions whenever you can and remember… Have fun!

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