I already know what you are thinking. You might be thinking you will never find your husband. Finding the love of your life is a luxury only reserved for the select few. Or you’re confused. Most guys aren’t taking you seriously. You see one of your friends married or even a few. But in your world, there isn’t any hope. The truth is any girl can get married. Any girl can get a bachelor’s degree in college. Any girl improve their body at the gym.

 

If you want to someday get married it all comes down to a few tweaks. A few simple things that will make all the difference in the world. I can promise you if you follow everything that you read down below you will be able to find your future husband. You will feel 10x more confident when you are done reading. Sounds good? Great! Let’s jump right into it.

 

REASON #1. YOU DON’T HAVE CLEAR INTENTIONS

If you’re reading this right now, then you most likely fit in this category. I can almost bet my truck that you fit in this category. If you don’t have clear intentions of what you want then you are far less likely to get it.

Before you even start dating any guy I’m going to give a secret tip. This tip will be your foundation to make dating a lot more simple. Are you ready? The tip is that you need to be either all in or all out. You need crystal clear clarity in what exactly you want. You need to be dating with the intention of marriage!

 

But wait! Before you freak out or lose your mind let me explain. It will make sense why I’m telling you this. When I tell you that you need to be all in this is what I mean. Let me give you an example.

 

Let’s say you’re going to college and you’re not sure exactly what field you want to pursue a career in. 3 years go by and you are still not sure. But you’re showing up to class. You’re taking classes that you don’t need. You’re taking one class that you like but you’re sticking around in that class for too long wasting your time. You don’t have an exact plan in college. You don’t have clarity!

 

SO WHY DOES THIS HURT YOU? 

The issue is that if most girls approached dating the way they approached college they would all get the guy they want. But they don’t. In college, you have to study for what you want. You have to know the career you’re pursuing and be all in. But when it comes to dating most girls don’t even know if they want to be married! Yet they are dating regardless. They are showing up to class wasting their time. This is the very first issue you need to address. 

 

Do I want to be in a serious relationship and eventually get married? The answer should be a clear yes. If it’s not then dating guys will just make you more unsure of yourself. You will be dating with confusion and mixed emotions. You will be dating with no clear end goal in mind. And guess what? It will show up in your actions. The guy you are dating won’t take you seriously. 

 

For you to be taken seriously you need to come off as a girl that knows exactly what she wants. He needs to feel that confident energy from you that you are a woman with a clear intention. If you are playing games or not coming off a serious woman then you are putting the wrong energy and impression out. Don’t be a confused person who does not know exactly what they want. 

 

 

REASON #2. YOU DON’T VALUE YOUR TIME

Asking yourself these questions will give you a very simple understanding of how serious he is taking you. But you have to be honest with yourself about answering these questions. A lot of women lie to themselves to make themselves feel better or they know the truth but try to change the guy’s mind. So here is another bonus tip. 

 

YOU CAN’T USUALLY CHANGE A GUYS MIND. HE EITHER LIKES YOU OR HE DOES NOT. IF HE DOESN’T, MOVE ON 

 

That bonus tip will save you a lot of time also. Don’t have an ego. The faster you can accept this the faster you can move on and find the love of your life. Not every guy will always like you and that’s okay. Remember, this is also a numbers game. 

 

 

REASON # 3. You are not diverse

 This one is a bit more complex but also very important. Let me ask you a question. If there was a way to increase your chances of getting married by 10-25% would you do it? I bet you probably would! All you have to do is be more open-minded. What do I mean by this? The key word is intermarriage. Yep, you heard me. Intermarriage. 

 

A lot of females prefer only to marry their ethnicity. This is statistically proven on the U.S. census. Usually, 70% of people are married to somebody of the same ethnicity as themselves. But if you look further into the intermarriage statistics on the Pew Research Center 36% of Asian females married outside of their ethnicity in 2015 in the USA. That means if you are Asian you would have had a 35% more likelihood of getting married by being open to other cultures and ethnicities! 

 

28% of white females also married out in 2015 in the USA. Being open to other ethnicities can make the difference in finding your husband or not. A 10-35% boost in anything will make a dramatic difference. If you’re only open to marrying your ethnicity then you are shooting yourself in the foot. 

You would be surprised who you can fall in love with if you are just more open-minded. You will be

 

Center click the link below. It’s very interesting.

INTERMARRIAGE STATISTICS


 

 

REASON #4. THERE IS NO PERFECT MAN

When it comes to finding the perfect husband it does not exist. There will always be something you have to give up. You probably have a lot of standards and preferences and that’s fine. It’s good to have standards. Let’s say you prefer a white-collar working Hispanic man who is a lean athletic build. You want him to be at least 5’10. You prefer him to be a soft speaker. More of a passive personality type. You want him to make at least $65,000 a year. You’re hoping he comes with a big extended family.

 

Now what if he has all of those things that you want but he’s not Hispanic? He is white. Are you okay with that?

What if he is Hispanic with all of the traits you want except he isn’t 5’10. He is 5″7 instead.

Would you accept him? Or would you pass him up thinking that you have unlimited options? The truth is you’re going to run into guys that might fit most criteria or preferences that you have and this will give you the illusion that you are close to finding the perfect guy. It’s not your fault that you think this way. I mean after all, if you already found a couple of guys that almost had everything you wanted then why would it not be realistic to find a guy that checks almost every single box right?

 

Wrong. This is a mental trap that a lot of females fall into. In fact, this is one of the main reasons why even some of the most attractive girls who have so many options of good-looking men to men with great careers can’t make up their minds about who to choose. They feel like they are stuck. Because they want it all. But in life, something has to give for you to get.

 

This is why that saying exists. ” You can either have a busy man or a broken man, but you can’t have both”. There is always going to be something that you really may not like but that you are going to have to accept. Always remember that a perfect relationship isn’t about the similarities that you and your partner have. It’s about the differences. It’s about accepting each other difference’s and flaws and learning to adjust to each other’s weaknesses.

 

REASON #5. TRUE LOVE COMES IN TIME. NOT RIGHT AWAY

Oh, this is probably going to be the most interesting reason of them all. This is why I saved the best for last. So where do I start? Let’s go back to reason #4 for just a second ( There is no perfect man ). So you can’t choose a man even if he has the majority of the traits you’re looking for. Even if you feel like you kinda like him it’s hard for you to pull the trigger because you don’t feel like you are in love yet. That’s the problem!

 

Your perception of true love is wrong. You’re waiting to feel instant love at first sight. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth. You see, falling in love is a process. Is it possible to fall in love at first sight? Of course! However, it’s also possible to become a millionaire on your first business within a year right? Yes of course. Anything is possible. But that’s not how most people become millionaires. And that’s not how most people fall in love either.

 

You see, I truly care about you and that’s why I’m giving you realistic advice. You have a much higher chance of achieving things when you have a more realistic perception of the world and how things actually work. So how do people fall in love in general? Well, the key is this. All you need to do is like the guy when you first meet him and the love will come later on. Keyword… LATER ON.

Still confused? Ok let’s break this process down into 4 simple steps.

 

 

1. You go on a date with him and within the first 3 dates you immediately like him. You aren’t crazy about him yet, but you are starting to like him.

2. You continue to date him and you start to open up to him. You focus solely on him. He is the only guy you are dating and because of this, you start to feel small signs of love throughout the following weeks.

 

3. You and him become official boyfriend and girlfriend. The love is now starting to build slowly.

 

4. After a few months of being in a relationship you start falling in love and building an attachment to him.

 

That’s the basic breakdown of how true love comes in the majority of situations! And the scary part is that most girls have been on the step 1 phase. But they didn’t advance to step 2 or 3. They didn’t trust the process. You probably had the love of your life right in front of your face! But you didn’t even realize it. Isn’t that scary? Unfortunately, this is the reality for so many girls.

 

Every time you meet a guy that you like you need to go along with the process. Don’t talk to other guys while you are in this process. Don’t treat dating like a machine gun trying to hit multiple targets. Treat dating like a sniper rifle. Focus, aim, shoot! Allow each step of the process to advance. If it doesn’t work then you can move on to the next guy. But repeat the process again if you like the next guy.

And this brings me to the next reason…

 

REASON #6. TRUE LOVE COMES FROM THE ATTACHMENT

This is where everything starts to line up. I just spoke to you about the 4 step process right? Well, guess what? That 4 step process is what creates an attachment and the attachment is the single most important aspect to the foundation of what true love is! When you and you him have an attachment to one another that is when you are truly in the love phase.

 

However, how can you build a true attachment if you skip out on the 4 step process? If you expect to fall in love within 3 dates? The attachment takes some time to build. When you allow yourself the time to give the guy you like your full attention you allow the possibility to find out something about him that you probably didn’t know. Sometimes you don’t even realize when the attachment comes. That’s the crazy part!

 

So never be afraid to give the guy you like your full attention. Trying to juggle multiple men will only divide your attention and make you lose focus on truly getting to know the guy you like. This is why meeting somebody was much easier back in the day. Because before phones and the internet, you didn’t have the option to talk to multiple guys as easily. Now you have access to men on a global scale. But you need to fully focus on the one guy you like.

 

It’s proven that the more options you have the harder it is to make a decision. They say when you are selling something to somebody you don’t want to present more than 3 options. This will make it 10x easier to choose one. Now imagine if you presented 8 options to somebody. How much harder would it be to make a decision?

 

So remember… to create the attachment you need to only focus on the guy you like. Do not date other guys while you already have a guy you somewhat like. If you feel things aren’t working with the guy you like then just move on to meeting somebody else.

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REASON #7. YOUR PERCEPTION OF MARRIAGE IS WRONG

So this one has more to do with your mindset of marriage. They say if you want something in life you need to truly understand what it is. If you don’t you can’t get it. It’s hard to achieve something when you don’t have a good understanding of what it is. So what is your perception of marriage?

 

Let me take a guess.. when you think of marriage you think of true love, vacations, a nice house, and an easier life. And yes you aren’t wrong. These things are part of marriage. But here is a better more realistic perception of marriage. Marriage is about duty, hard work, and family. Those are the 3 core aspects of what makes a marriage.

 

Let’s go over all 3 aspects of marriage so you can have a better understanding of why this is so important and why understanding this will make getting married more achievable.

 

DUTY

When you are married it comes with duty and duty is going to be the key to whether your marriage works out or not. If you view marriage as just love and fun you aren’t going to be prepared for a serious relationship or a marriage. However, if you understand your duties as a wife you are going to be an amazing wife and attract a man that is very serious and mature.

 

What are your duties? You’re duties as a wife are simple and you can show a man your duties before you are even married to him. In fact, this is how you convince him to see you as a future wife and vice versa. Your duties involve being emotionally supportive, domesticated, and being a great mother.

 

You can show emotional support before you are even in a relationship with him. You can show how domesticated you are by cooking him a delicious meal or cleaning his apartment when you visit him, and you can show how much of a great future mother you will be by showing him how nurturing you are. All of these things are your duty as a wife. This is how you make a man see you as a wife and not just a fun girl.

 

HARD WORK

The better your work ethic is the better wife or husband you are. Here is the truth.. marriage is work and it’s hard work at certain times. Viewing marriage as something fun is fine. But you need to also understand that marriage is a lot of work. Having a duty to another person isn’t easy. So having a great work ethic increases your chance of getting married and staying married.

 

FAMILY

The greatest gift that comes out of marriage is family. You need to be family-oriented. Marriage is all about family and legacy. When you are dating a guy you like mention to him how you can’t wait to have kids one day. See his response. Don’t mention this right away or on the first date. But mention it eventually. Maybe he gets just as happy talking about this. If he does its a good sign.

 

Never be scared to talk about this. In fact, if you dream of being married one day it’s perfectly fine to want to talk about this. This is one of the ways are make yourself appear as a wife. This is why your perception of what marriage truly is is so important!

 

 

REASON #8. MAKING HIM OBSESSED WITH YOU

This is a great way to achieve marriage. Whenever you see a man marry someone within 6-12 months this is exactly why! It’s because, in some way, shape, or form, he probably became obsessed with her. I mean… think about it. Why else would he marry her that fast? Some women understand how to make a man obsessed with them. Only some. Most don’t.

 

This is the most powerful and fastest way to achieve marriage. Why? Because the truth is… if a man is obsessed with you he will most likely marry you and fast! He will do anything to make you happy. You would be shocked at how different a man you know will act when he meets a girl he becomes obsessed with.

 

So how do you make him obsessed with you? What are the secret steps? Well if you want to know don’t miss out. As I said, this is the most important tip and will increase your chances by 10-fold! Click down below to learn this skill and join all the other women around the world who have found the man of their dreams by clicking the same link!

 

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